Help with cleaning up severely vandalized home provides West Seattle woman with hope
Project Possible working together in collaboration and partnership with John Stavros and his team from Bio-Management NW have made substantial progress in bringing this severely vandalized West Seattle home back into a safe and inhabitable condition. From July to mid October of 2009, the Bio-Management NW team had cleaned out and decontaminated the majority of the interior spaces of the home that had been trashed. Having completed this portion of the project, John’s team set their sights on coordinating with the woman from West Seattle about restoring her bedroom which had substantial water damage to the ceiling, insulation, walls, floor and subflooring and addressing the growth and build up of toxic mold in this room.
Project Possible through its volunteers had been working on the exterior landscaping and maintenance of the yard around the home during this same time period. The patio and porch that she so enjoyed sitting on were cleared of debris, swept and washed down. Vines, bushes and trees that had for years overgrown the sides and roof of the home were cut back in order to keep them from damaging the house any further. A trailer and truckload of yard debris were removed from the property. This exterior work allowed the her to be able to walk freely around the perimeter of her home once again without incident, hindrance or risk of injury.
The progress of the work being performed to restore the home was unfolding at an accelerated pace. At the rate the work was being completed, it was more than likely that she would be able to come home for Christmas – which would be a dream come true for her. Her mood from the time I had first met her had steadily been improving with each little step that was completed in helping her put her home back together. She began to see an end to her dilemma.
Because I manage the Project Possible program of Just Ask on a part time basis in addition to my 40 hour a week job as a Facilities Coordinator for the Ascentium Corporation (www.ascentium.com), I will occasionly receive phone calls concerning inquiries, ongoing projects and or requests for assistance while I am at work. I received a call about mid October on a Thursday afternoon which at first struck me as odd. A friend of the woman in Seattle we were helping called me and at first I couldn’t understand why. She seemed to know an awful lot more than I was comfortable with about the project, the woman and me than I did about her or why she was calling.
I had begun to move the conversation in a direction to protect the privacy and confidentiality of the woman we were helping and the details of her situation when the caller then revealed the nature of her call to me. The West Seattle woman we were helping had passed away several days before. I was stunned. I had been aware that she had not been in the best of health and that she was awaiting a pacemaker implant which had been put off and rescheduled several times while the doctors awaited improvement in her overall health. But apparently her health situation was far more serious than she let on.
The West Seattle woman we were helping was always so very friendly and outgoing despite her serious health challenges and the embarrassment and shame she felt about her situation. She was liberal with her thanks and praise for the work being performed on her behalf. But as a result of how she felt, she did not share much about her home situation with the people around her who were the closest to her. We continually reassured her that the condition of her home from having been burglarized and vandalized was not her fault and that it was outside of her control. Those who did this to her were the ones who had embarrassed themselves by treating her in so shameful a manner.
I offered my deepest sympathy to the woman who had called to tell me about her friend’s passing. The caller made it a point to inform me that in conversations she had with her West Seattle friend (who had apparently shared with her some things about her situation) that she always spoke very highly about Project Possible and John Stavros of Bio-Management NW. She relayed to me that her friend had confided to her that she once again had found reason to hope for a better outcome for her current life situation because of our involvement with her. She recounted how her friend on a few occasions had broken down in tears out of sheer relief and gratitude for the help that she had now finally been getting.
I thanked the woman for her call and I asked to be kept informed of any planned memorial service for this woman from West Seattle. I in no way have any regrets about having taken on this project nor any hint of disappointment about the outcome of the situation we worked so hard to help her out with. This dear woman had a legitimate need. Up to the point we became involved in her life and with her particular problem, she had been referred and rerefered to other organizations for help without success, been scolded for living alone at her age as well as threatened with a visit from the county health inspector by the authorities, continued to have her home repeatedly broken into and damaged by a multitude of offenders and was reduced to sleeping on a borrowed couch at a friend’s house for over a year while she tried to determine what to do about her predicament.
“12 Unrelenting disappointment leaves you heartsick, but a sudden good break can turn life around.” – Proverbs 13:12 (The Message)
The Project Possible program of Just Ask is committed to making good things happen in order to provide people in dire need with a sudden good break in their unrelenting disappointment thereby helping to turn life around for them. I am indebted to the pro bono services of Mr. John Stavros and his team from Bio Management NW. My heartfelt thanks goes out to all of you who responded with your kind and generous offers to help in some way with this need after seeing my initial blog post about this situation that was carried by the West Seattle Blog. You also are true unsung heroes whose compassion is inspiring to me. Though this particular West Seattle woman’s story of suffering ends here, there are many other people in need that our program is continually encountering each month.
Many of them are in situations as bad or worse and they also are in desperate need of help. They often lack the financial, social and physical resources to take care of their own situations by themselves. And far too often they find themselves in a seemingly endless loop of referral and rereferral to various places or stuck on waiting lists for service and or being judged for the circumstances they are in but with no one to actually step forward to help them out. Our desire is to intervene in this cycle by stepping forward to help by doing something about these situations that we become aware of. If you have the similar desire to make a difference in your community, in the lives of those needing help, we invite you to contact us about participating in a project.
“Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land.” – Proverbs 13:12 (NIV) Because we believe this to be true, we will be posting other success stories from previous completed projects as well as current projects in the near future to spread some good news around.










At Project Possible, a program of Just Ask, we are building and gearing up our infrastructure to be able to put our “project in a box” concept into effect – providing everything needed at a project site for volunteers to perform the work requested at no cost to the recipient. We believe that all projects are possible; therefore we think in terms of “how we will” provide help and not “why we can’t.”